A Real Friend???

IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO GET A REAL FRIEND. IF IT IS POSSIBLE, IT WILL BE IMPOSSIBLE TO KEEP HIS/HER FRIENDSHIP FOREVER BECAUSE HE/SHE WILL SAY THE TRUTH, NOT IN PUBLIC, BUT SECRETLY, ALWAYS, AS HE/SHE WILL NOT PRAISE YOU WITHOUT A PURPOSE AND GRADUALLY YOU START TO AVOID OR HATE HIM/HER. IF IT HAPPENS SO, YOU ARE THE MOST UNLUCKY PERSON AS YOU SPOILED THE BOON OF GOD.
DIE FOR A REAL FRIEND, DO NOT LOSE AT ANY COST

Do we really love others?

Is 'familiarity breeds contempt' happens in love also? Does Our love towards parents, spouse, lover, friends, children etc sprout from the bottom of heart in all stages of our relationship?. Or it becomes something like mechanical?

The answers will be a matter of honesty and integrity, I believe.